When we try to theorise about what could happen and what we can do we often think fives steps ahead of more but that plan could already change when we have to apply it in real life and see that things aren't what we expected them to be.
Sometimes we don't know what we should do an only by trying it over and over again do we see new options emerge.
Our lives are often more complex than we can think about. We can only hold plus or minus 7 pieces of information at once but life is much more complex than that. I don't say that to discourage but to encourage you because that means also that we could vastly underestimate the options that could emerge while we are learning along the way.
You might think that you want something and find out as you continue that is something completely different that you want altogether or you can finally get what you thought you wanted and find out it is not at all what you expected.
The way we are going in life and the way we expected to go could be completely different.
You might connect to people that you never thought you would meet before. You might get a proposal that you didn't expect at all. You might learn something along the way that will make you say "no" to a proposal you would say "yes" too before what a different road that would be.
Some things only become in focus for us when we do it over and over again or we do it for a long time. Patterns emerge from repetition and comparison.
Stay open to surprises in your life, even if some aren't pleasant at the moment.
One of the most powerful feelings that can change a person's life is that of "enough!"
The straw that breaks the camels back, the drop that made the bucket spill. One thing that changes and nothing could be the same anymore.
In the end, I have bad news and I have good news.
The bad news is: It's more complex than you think and everything changes.
The good news is: It's more complex than you think and everything changes.
Embrace the opportunities.
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